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Your Beliefs Create Your Experiences

By Viola Woolcott

What it is we think about ourselves becomes our truth. Everyone, including myself, is responsible for all that we experience in our lives. No matter how good or bad.

Our future is created by ourselves. By our thoughts and feelings. The thoughts we have, what we are thinking, the words we speak are creating what we experience. We are the creators of the situation we find ourselves in and by blaming others for our frustration, we are giving our power away. Nothing has power over us. No person, no place, no thing, as we are the once having the thoughts. We are the thinkers.

Here are two statements people often use. Which one would more likely to be you?

1. People are out to get me
2. Everyone is always very helpful

Depending on what your beliefs are, either of them will create different experiences. What you believe about yourself and life becomes your truth and the Universe supports us in every thought we choose to think, and of course, what we then believe. Our choices are unlimited!

There is no judgement or criticism. The Universal power accepts us at our own value and reflects our beliefs into our lives. When people believe that life is a lonely place and that nobody loves them, then that is what they will find in their world. When they believe that love is everywhere, that they are loving and lovable, loving people will enter their lives and the people they already have in their lives will become more loving and this would become their belief, their truth.

When we are little, we learn the way how and what to think about ourselves. How to feel about ourselves and also how to feel about life by the reactions of the adults that are around us. It shapes our own world. You learn a lot about yourself and your world by the people you lived with, who may have been negative, impatient, unhappy, angry, frightened or maybe guilty. If you were told that you never do anything right, that everything is your fault, or that you are a bad person when you get angry, than these beliefs create a frustrating life.

When we get older, we do have the tendency to recreate our early home life. I am not saying this is good or bad, right or wrong, we just don’t know any different. The relationships we have had with our mothers or fathers or the relationship they have had with each other, we recreate in our own relationships. How our parents treated us, we treat ourselves. We punish ourselves in the same way. Can’t you hear yourself when you listen?

But please, don’t blame your parents, we are all victims of victims. It is up to you to change your thinking and belief system, so don’t put yourself down, I know that you are doing the best you can at this moment in time and if you knew better, had more understanding and awareness, than you would of course do it different.

The very fact that you are reading this means that you are ready to make some new, positive changes!

Filed under: Mind | Body | Spirit on January 12th, 2008