Feeling Stuck Takes Great Effort, It Doesnt Just Happen To Us
Feeling Stuck Takes Great Effort, It Doesnt Just Happen To Us
Many of you out there are being stuck in a mental as well as emotional rut. Needless to say, but also stuck physically.
If you had know then what I will share with you now, you would have known that feeling stuck is a reason to celebrate, to congratulate yourself.
To feel stuck takes great effort as it doesn’t just happen to us. It’s an accomplishment.
There is not one thing in the entire Universe that stands still. In nature everything grows and changes all of the time. Everything is in motion, even the ground we stand on. The entire Universe is always on the move. It changes and grows.
Being stuck is hard work. It’s a tough fight. We have to be strong and powerful to keep ourselves stuck. We have to fight the whole, entire Universe. And we feel as if we are winning trying to beat the whole flow of the Universe. We want to prove we are special.
We tell ourselves that we can beat the system. That our problems are worse than anyone elses. That our childhood was the most painful of all. That we have suffered the most.
But in the end we just give up the fight as it’s hard work. It’s draining. It’s no fun. It takes your energy away. And then you try telling yourself the truth. But the truth hurts like hell.
The truth is that we are responsible for anything that happens to us. We are responsible for everything that happens to us.
But we choose to stay the victim.
You may have been abused as a child, but now you are grown up and no one is abusing you anymore and you can (if you choose too) heal your past if you decide not to except to be abused. You have choice!
Look at your judgements. It is impossible to stay stuck without judging yourself as well as others. Judgements keep things frozen. Judgement freezes your thoughts and also your feelings of the past. We judge ourselves as being a bad person. As being wrong. Flawed and unlovable. Unworthy and no good for nothing! Some people carry so many judgements with them that even a wheelbarrow wouldn’t be big enough to carry them around.
Judgemebt keeps you from evaluating the situation you find yourself in. I’m positive that you have not noticed before how many times you judge yourself. Your thoughts and feelings come from being scared and being a lonely, hurting child, which turns into a teenager and than into an adult.
Judgements happen to keep your pain in one place. It’s almost as if your pain is frozen. It’s a protection and it’s supposed to keep you from feeling the pain. But the pain doesn’t go away and at times it shows up.
But judgements alone aren’t enough. Will power has no boundaries and it takes strenght to stay stuck. ENORMOUS strength.
To do anything it takes will and strength. Your will-power entangles with imagination and intertwined they fow out of you like fluid and flexible lines of energy reaching out in all directions.
Question is, what direction should you choose? Firstly it all depends on your will and of course your imagination.
Now I want you to ask yourself if you are willing to look at your judgements? Are you willing to face the truth about the reason why you are stuck? Are you willing to imagine what the reason is that keeps you stuck?
Being stuck you always have to remember your story. And who wants to be happy? One step in the right direction and you may find yourself on the path of growth and that would mean you are changing for the better. So are you going to risk it and let your guard down? Or will you stay stuck and even when you go to bed remember your misery and fall asleep only from exhaustion. And guess what your first thought will be first thing in the morning? You start going through the whole thing again from the beginning. So what are you going to do?
If you don’t let your guard down, you will never get a break. You have to choose. You are responsible. No one else is going to do it for you. You are in charge and have to do it all alone.
Related reading:
What You Resist Persists, Emotional Freedom
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